Shout Tips: How To REALLY Speak To Your Crush!

How to talk to your crush

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We share our five easy ways to shoot your shot!

How to talk to your crush

Ask them questions!

One way to take the pressure off you is to ask your crush questions about themselves! This allows them to take the lead in the convo, and you don’t have to worry so much about what you’re going to say next. It’s a great way to find out what you have in common with them!

Remember the small things!

Remember things they’ve told you and casually bring it up next time you see them. So if they said their dog wasn’t feeling well, ask them how little Olly is doing next time you sit next to them in maths class.

Don’t pretend!

If they love gaming but you’ve haven’t picked up a controller in years – do NOT pretend you like gaming too. You’ll eventually get found out and end up looking a little silly. Ask them to give you some recommendations or an entry point into their hobby instead – people love to give advice!

Play it cool!

It’s important to show your crush that you’re interested – but don’t be too interested! Remember, you want to be their romantic interest, not the captain of their fan club! Play it cool and don’t be overeager.

Feel the vibe!

If you like someone and they like you back, you’ll usually feel good vibes between you when you’re together. But if you’re trying to chat to your crush and it’s like speaking to a brick wall, don’t force it. They’re not for you and frankly don’t deserve you – because you’re amazing!

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